"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ten Commandments of a Don Juan

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If anything seems repetitious just coment and we can, together, set up a basic guidline to living the Don Juan dream.

1. Thou shalt not set of any task or person upon the pedestal.

2. Thou shalt not be set back by fear.

3. Self-improvement must be one's number one goal.

4. If thou shalt face rejection or hardship, take it as a GAIN of experience and see the positive side to every aspect that may pass you on your life's path.

5. One's mind must ban any and every negative thought.

6. Never let any man or woman dissrespect you.

7. Always have a hobbie, goal, project, invention, ect. going on for your life

8. think and you shall become

9. Have no concern with what doesn't have to do with YOUR life, and that that doesn't add to your life in a positive manner. (girl drama is a fine example)

10. Always make the best of a situation and have fun with what you do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you forgot the eleventh one.

11.) Thou shalt not become fat.

comic_relief
 

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Really great, but I disagree with 9. It's really DJ to do all that "be involved with the greater good" stuff. Be able to brag to chicks about the orphans you help or whatever. You know, 'Bruce Wayne'.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Didn't pook already have this?
I think I did see a Pook post with the commandments, but every DJ will have a slightly different set of ideals.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
 

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mr_elor said:
Hehe, pretty much all of them are my current guidelines to live by.

Number 9's an underrated one. Sometimes you won't be doing too well on the female side of things whilst your mates are constantly getting sex, and it's important not to let this affect you because, well it has no effect on you. Only consider how you used to be, and how you are now.

I'd like to add a few:

  • Be chilled, don't try to hard (to make people like you).
  • Exercise self-control and patience
  • Never give a shyt what anyone thinks, you're always gonna have one or two doubters or naysayers.


yes i do agree with you and thanks for adding to these This was just kinda for fun so better commandments are a GOOD thing much appreciation we don't really have to stop at ten do we? they're are people who posted before you that were wanting to complain. I see it this way that djs are suppsoed to have hobbies and one of mine is to help others understand the principles of a DJ better. I haven't seen any commandments by Pook, but if he did write any then, that may shows a similarity in ideas and for those saying this is a waste of time are wasting time to write such a message. Am I RIGHT? but its for fun so ne more ideas to add are more than welcome. keep em comin'
 

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benjiprice said:
I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
How about:

8. Think/Act/Analyize/Adjust and you shall become
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeh thats true i do this during work breaks and sometimes lunch hours. but it gives me a hobbie where i can give and get help when needed. during those free minutes.
 
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