"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ten Commandments of a Don Juan

J-Bone

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If anything seems repetitious just coment and we can, together, set up a basic guidline to living the Don Juan dream.

1. Thou shalt not set of any task or person upon the pedestal.

2. Thou shalt not be set back by fear.

3. Self-improvement must be one's number one goal.

4. If thou shalt face rejection or hardship, take it as a GAIN of experience and see the positive side to every aspect that may pass you on your life's path.

5. One's mind must ban any and every negative thought.

6. Never let any man or woman dissrespect you.

7. Always have a hobbie, goal, project, invention, ect. going on for your life

8. think and you shall become

9. Have no concern with what doesn't have to do with YOUR life, and that that doesn't add to your life in a positive manner. (girl drama is a fine example)

10. Always make the best of a situation and have fun with what you do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you forgot the eleventh one.

11.) Thou shalt not become fat.

comic_relief
 

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Really great, but I disagree with 9. It's really DJ to do all that "be involved with the greater good" stuff. Be able to brag to chicks about the orphans you help or whatever. You know, 'Bruce Wayne'.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Didn't pook already have this?
I think I did see a Pook post with the commandments, but every DJ will have a slightly different set of ideals.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
 

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mr_elor said:
Hehe, pretty much all of them are my current guidelines to live by.

Number 9's an underrated one. Sometimes you won't be doing too well on the female side of things whilst your mates are constantly getting sex, and it's important not to let this affect you because, well it has no effect on you. Only consider how you used to be, and how you are now.

I'd like to add a few:

  • Be chilled, don't try to hard (to make people like you).
  • Exercise self-control and patience
  • Never give a shyt what anyone thinks, you're always gonna have one or two doubters or naysayers.


yes i do agree with you and thanks for adding to these This was just kinda for fun so better commandments are a GOOD thing much appreciation we don't really have to stop at ten do we? they're are people who posted before you that were wanting to complain. I see it this way that djs are suppsoed to have hobbies and one of mine is to help others understand the principles of a DJ better. I haven't seen any commandments by Pook, but if he did write any then, that may shows a similarity in ideas and for those saying this is a waste of time are wasting time to write such a message. Am I RIGHT? but its for fun so ne more ideas to add are more than welcome. keep em comin'
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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benjiprice said:
I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
How about:

8. Think/Act/Analyize/Adjust and you shall become
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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J-Bone

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yeh thats true i do this during work breaks and sometimes lunch hours. but it gives me a hobbie where i can give and get help when needed. during those free minutes.
 
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