Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ten Commandments of a Don Juan

J-Bone

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If anything seems repetitious just coment and we can, together, set up a basic guidline to living the Don Juan dream.

1. Thou shalt not set of any task or person upon the pedestal.

2. Thou shalt not be set back by fear.

3. Self-improvement must be one's number one goal.

4. If thou shalt face rejection or hardship, take it as a GAIN of experience and see the positive side to every aspect that may pass you on your life's path.

5. One's mind must ban any and every negative thought.

6. Never let any man or woman dissrespect you.

7. Always have a hobbie, goal, project, invention, ect. going on for your life

8. think and you shall become

9. Have no concern with what doesn't have to do with YOUR life, and that that doesn't add to your life in a positive manner. (girl drama is a fine example)

10. Always make the best of a situation and have fun with what you do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you forgot the eleventh one.

11.) Thou shalt not become fat.

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Really great, but I disagree with 9. It's really DJ to do all that "be involved with the greater good" stuff. Be able to brag to chicks about the orphans you help or whatever. You know, 'Bruce Wayne'.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Didn't pook already have this?
I think I did see a Pook post with the commandments, but every DJ will have a slightly different set of ideals.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
 

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mr_elor said:
Hehe, pretty much all of them are my current guidelines to live by.

Number 9's an underrated one. Sometimes you won't be doing too well on the female side of things whilst your mates are constantly getting sex, and it's important not to let this affect you because, well it has no effect on you. Only consider how you used to be, and how you are now.

I'd like to add a few:

  • Be chilled, don't try to hard (to make people like you).
  • Exercise self-control and patience
  • Never give a shyt what anyone thinks, you're always gonna have one or two doubters or naysayers.


yes i do agree with you and thanks for adding to these This was just kinda for fun so better commandments are a GOOD thing much appreciation we don't really have to stop at ten do we? they're are people who posted before you that were wanting to complain. I see it this way that djs are suppsoed to have hobbies and one of mine is to help others understand the principles of a DJ better. I haven't seen any commandments by Pook, but if he did write any then, that may shows a similarity in ideas and for those saying this is a waste of time are wasting time to write such a message. Am I RIGHT? but its for fun so ne more ideas to add are more than welcome. keep em comin'
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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benjiprice said:
I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
How about:

8. Think/Act/Analyize/Adjust and you shall become
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeh thats true i do this during work breaks and sometimes lunch hours. but it gives me a hobbie where i can give and get help when needed. during those free minutes.
 
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