Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ten Commandments of a Don Juan

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If anything seems repetitious just coment and we can, together, set up a basic guidline to living the Don Juan dream.

1. Thou shalt not set of any task or person upon the pedestal.

2. Thou shalt not be set back by fear.

3. Self-improvement must be one's number one goal.

4. If thou shalt face rejection or hardship, take it as a GAIN of experience and see the positive side to every aspect that may pass you on your life's path.

5. One's mind must ban any and every negative thought.

6. Never let any man or woman dissrespect you.

7. Always have a hobbie, goal, project, invention, ect. going on for your life

8. think and you shall become

9. Have no concern with what doesn't have to do with YOUR life, and that that doesn't add to your life in a positive manner. (girl drama is a fine example)

10. Always make the best of a situation and have fun with what you do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you forgot the eleventh one.

11.) Thou shalt not become fat.

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Really great, but I disagree with 9. It's really DJ to do all that "be involved with the greater good" stuff. Be able to brag to chicks about the orphans you help or whatever. You know, 'Bruce Wayne'.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Didn't pook already have this?
I think I did see a Pook post with the commandments, but every DJ will have a slightly different set of ideals.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
 

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mr_elor said:
Hehe, pretty much all of them are my current guidelines to live by.

Number 9's an underrated one. Sometimes you won't be doing too well on the female side of things whilst your mates are constantly getting sex, and it's important not to let this affect you because, well it has no effect on you. Only consider how you used to be, and how you are now.

I'd like to add a few:

  • Be chilled, don't try to hard (to make people like you).
  • Exercise self-control and patience
  • Never give a shyt what anyone thinks, you're always gonna have one or two doubters or naysayers.


yes i do agree with you and thanks for adding to these This was just kinda for fun so better commandments are a GOOD thing much appreciation we don't really have to stop at ten do we? they're are people who posted before you that were wanting to complain. I see it this way that djs are suppsoed to have hobbies and one of mine is to help others understand the principles of a DJ better. I haven't seen any commandments by Pook, but if he did write any then, that may shows a similarity in ideas and for those saying this is a waste of time are wasting time to write such a message. Am I RIGHT? but its for fun so ne more ideas to add are more than welcome. keep em comin'
 

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benjiprice said:
I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
How about:

8. Think/Act/Analyize/Adjust and you shall become
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeh thats true i do this during work breaks and sometimes lunch hours. but it gives me a hobbie where i can give and get help when needed. during those free minutes.
 
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