When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
But my shrink recommends taking it before a stressful situation (I also have panic attacks)real2 said:Even after plastic surgery, thousands of women still don't overcome their insecurity about themselves.
Overcome your inhibitions with practice!!
General anxiety is faced by absolutely everyone on this planet at one point or another; valium is just a temporary quick-fix.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
True . Its hard . But i force myself to do it . 3 seconds .real2 said:Harder said than done!!
Even for myself sometimes, and I'm pro at some DJ techniques :cheer:
So what do you do after you've tried to bring your self to do this hundreds of times but still fail to act?Daddy The Pimp said:True . Its hard . But i force myself to do it . 3 seconds .
3 , 2 , 1 and im IN . I just spit my prepared opener , hook them and keep the conversation going through routines and other sh1t . Than change to natural conversations .
This technique is GOOD because it reduces AA . Doesnt let your mind thinking about negative things , dont let the fear grow inside you . Within 3 seconds , you're IN .
So , before going out , prepare some openers . And the moment you see the girl you're attracted , dont think about it . Just go in . Force yourself in . This is the best way to defeat AA and dont let your fear hold you back .
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wolf116 said:So what do you do after you've tried to bring your self to do this hundreds of times but still fail to act?
Yeah that's great advice, everyone who suffers from anxiety and mental blocks should just kill themselves.Daddy The Pimp said:No fvcking way to fail . If you dont have control over your body , go kill yourself .
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
why r there morons like you in this world. people like u r so unnecessary. you're a douche.Daddy The Pimp said:No fvcking way to fail . If you dont have control over your body , go kill yourself .
lr2spllplzkthx.connor32 said:why r there morons like you in this world. people like u r so unnecessary. you're a douche.
Weed dose not reduce anxiety.Rhoto said:lr2spllplzkthx.![]()
OP -But why not just smoke weed? It's cheaper and less addictive.
I partially agree with this, but disagree greatly too. I don't have time to discuss it at this moment, but I will check back if this thread doesn't devolve.wolf116 said:Weed dose not reduce anxiety.
You're talking to a weekly smoker (vaporizer) here.Rhoto said:I partially agree with this, but disagree greatly too. I don't have time to discuss it at this moment, but I will check back if this thread doesn't devolve.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.