“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Taking valium to reduced AA

jdawgmcb

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My doctor prescribed me 270tabs of valium for one month to see if it can calm my anxiety (general anxiety as well) and i was wondering if it was good for removing approach anxiety?

Is it bad to have to take some for AA?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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real2 said:
Even after plastic surgery, thousands of women still don't overcome their insecurity about themselves.

Overcome your inhibitions with practice!!

General anxiety is faced by absolutely everyone on this planet at one point or another; valium is just a temporary quick-fix.
But my shrink recommends taking it before a stressful situation (I also have panic attacks)
 

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I find it a lot easier to make cold approaches after i've taken one though, and it just seems that the PUA flows through me a lot better.
 

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If you really have to take that ****, I would not stay on it for very long. You end up becoming addicted. For me I use exercise. Great for reducing stress and anxiety.
 

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It sounds like you're trying to justify taking these pills to yourself.

I highly recommend that if you're going to take them that it only be temporary. You can easily take this too far, and learn to become dependent on the effects of these pills. Use it as it was intended, a method to temporarily bring relief so that you can deal with any issues. There are far more healthy and productive means to achieving the same results in the long term.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LISTEN VERY FKN CLOSELY! do not take more than is prescribed. it is very easy to become dependent on valium/xanax. doctors prescribe this sh!t like it's candy. WITHRDRAWAL FROM THESE PILLS IS EXTREMELY SEVERE! I know it feels great to be calm and i know anxiety is a b!tch but realize these little pills have powerful effects on your brain. Panic attacks can be overcome. Eventually you learn how to just let them pass. Just be careful. Don't take them just for kicks. Don't take them unless you really need them. Don't take them to help you fall asleep. If you don't believe me u can google "valium withdrawal" and read the horror stories.
 

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If it works, it works.

How much easer is it?

I'd use it like real2 said, slowly work your way off them. But if you have an additive personality I wouldn't do it at all.
 

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real2 said:
Harder said than done!!

Even for myself sometimes, and I'm pro at some DJ techniques :cheer:
True . Its hard . But i force myself to do it . 3 seconds .

3 , 2 , 1 and im IN . I just spit my prepared opener , hook them and keep the conversation going through routines and other sh1t . Than change to natural conversations .


This technique is GOOD because it reduces AA . Doesnt let your mind thinking about negative things , dont let the fear grow inside you . Within 3 seconds , you're IN .


So , before going out , prepare some openers . And the moment you see the girl you're attracted , dont think about it . Just go in . Force yourself in . This is the best way to defeat AA and dont let your fear hold you back .
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
True . Its hard . But i force myself to do it . 3 seconds .

3 , 2 , 1 and im IN . I just spit my prepared opener , hook them and keep the conversation going through routines and other sh1t . Than change to natural conversations .


This technique is GOOD because it reduces AA . Doesnt let your mind thinking about negative things , dont let the fear grow inside you . Within 3 seconds , you're IN .


So , before going out , prepare some openers . And the moment you see the girl you're attracted , dont think about it . Just go in . Force yourself in . This is the best way to defeat AA and dont let your fear hold you back .
So what do you do after you've tried to bring your self to do this hundreds of times but still fail to act?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you guys r totally missing the point here. it's not just approach anxiety. he also has general anxiety. the point here is that he needs to be careful with the pills.
 

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The real change will come from changing your emotions and beliefs.
Especially if you had years of repetitive bad thoughts and emotions you need to pay a closer attention to: 1. your emotions 2. your beliefs
You need to attack the both sides, especially the first.There are many new techniques for doing this..
The pills are only a quick fix. You need to change at the identity level in order to keep the changes, to have lasting changes.
 

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Exercise. Meditate. Pray. Do things you enjoy. Take a break from women for a while and focus on yourself. Work on your general anxiety issues first. Then worry about women later. They never stop making women you know. They will be there when you get back.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
No fvcking way to fail . If you dont have control over your body , go kill yourself .
Yeah that's great advice, everyone who suffers from anxiety and mental blocks should just kill themselves.

There are more ways to meet women then approaching. I get more pu$$y then a lot of the guys here without it, but it is not optimal.

I say use the drugs if they help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
No fvcking way to fail . If you dont have control over your body , go kill yourself .
why r there morons like you in this world. people like u r so unnecessary. you're a douche.
 

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connor32 said:
why r there morons like you in this world. people like u r so unnecessary. you're a douche.
lr2spllplzkthx. ;)

OP -But why not just smoke weed? It's cheaper and less addictive.
 

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Rhoto said:
lr2spllplzkthx. ;)

OP -But why not just smoke weed? It's cheaper and less addictive.
Weed dose not reduce anxiety.
 

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wolf116 said:
Weed dose not reduce anxiety.
I partially agree with this, but disagree greatly too. I don't have time to discuss it at this moment, but I will check back if this thread doesn't devolve.
 

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Rhoto said:
I partially agree with this, but disagree greatly too. I don't have time to discuss it at this moment, but I will check back if this thread doesn't devolve.
You're talking to a weekly smoker (vaporizer) here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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