"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm down for whenever. My skills are limited though and i barely know wat exactly the wingman is supposed to do. But willing to learn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good chances i'm moving to Toronto I applied for university, and I got a job interview down there.
 

75%PUA

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watsup guys anyone met up from here yet? im in toronto, some good pickup techniques but never winged wit anyone. im down for a meet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey, i'm like 30 minutes from t-dot and looking for an experianced DJ or PUA to take me under his wing for a while. I realitivily good game, I can approach easily now, and I'm up to try anything. Though I'm more of a day game person. (I only have been to night clubs once or twice.)
 

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Bumping an older thread.

Toronto here, Scarborough to be exact. I'm fairly new to this (not new to girls lol, just to the terms/routines/openers/etc).

Anyone around my area?

I went "sarging" for the first time last friday with a college buddy. I guess ok results, noting spectacular but I'm definitely down for meeting up with others to work on our game. Anyone interested?
 

Alle_Gory

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Good to know. Is this a regular meeting? I'm in the Halton Region. I'm 21 btw.
 

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we should do a general torronto meet up people, heck whats the worst that can happen? (lol, someone knock on wood.)
 

Aragon034

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cool, lots of T-dot peeps :D

i'm actually in danger zone, Jane and Lawrence, stay away! The crackheads know me and we joke around but they might jump you!

Most of my nights out are with my social circle, but i wouldn't be adverse to meeting some of you guys.

Someone host a party! i'd do it but i'm still with my parents since they are paying for college, Get a party going and i'll get every HB i know there :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Miguel

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Hey, not to quick, I don't want alot of strangers in my place. (Lol, kidding.)

Why not get everyone together, and prowl the streets for a couple hours PUA style? We can get a feel for people around us, plus get some sarging in.
 

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hey, btw, hate bringing up a old post from like 3 months ago, but their are several local PUA groups in torronto, look them up. We had Johnny S. at one of our meetings.
 

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Hey everyone. I just moved to Toronto and would love someone to do some daytime approaches with... I live up on St Clair, 21 (but look a bit younger, I'm told), and a total newbie, so don't expect any help from me, but I'm easy-going and I'm sure we could have a good time together, especially if you're a beginner as well.

Feel free to post here or PM me...
 

AaJ321

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Just moved in to Guelph-Humber University last semester. Surronded by Etobicoke but just a short hop skip and jump away from downtown via. transit. I originally hailed from a small farm town in Ontario, but my I.D. states my birthplace as Michigan. If you catch my drift.

I'm aware of all the great clubs and such, every girl on residence could recommend me one. I'm looking for a couple of good pubs/sports bars instead. One where girls don't shy away from but I also would feel comfortable bringing a group of my old farm town guy friends (who would perceive clubs as gay)
 

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Miguel said:
hey, btw, hate bringing up a old post from like 3 months ago, but their are several local PUA groups in torronto, look them up. We had Johnny S. at one of our meetings.
?:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freddy1 said:
Anyone around their 30's?
I am in my 40s but I look young. I look in my 30s. where do you go to pick up ladies in Toronto?

Where do the ladies hang out?
 

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lol i didnt see this thread lol....im 17 willing to train...im not a ro pua yet but on my way.
 

picard

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I am from Toronto too. where do you guys go to pick up girls?
 

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im new in this forum, 20 years old in college toronto. I am very eager to learn quick and put in work getting girls and I just like having a good time at the end of the day and go for coffee later and talk about ****. but yeaaa, who else is down for nightclubs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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