"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
T O R O N T O !
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
johnnypopular
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Northern Lights
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Miguel
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Toronto here, Scarborough to be exact. I'm fairly new to this (not new to girls lol, just to the terms/routines/openers/etc).
Anyone around my area?
I went "sarging" for the first time last friday with a college buddy. I guess ok results, noting spectacular but I'm definitely down for meeting up with others to work on our game. Anyone interested?
Miguel
Don Juan
i'm actually in danger zone, Jane and Lawrence, stay away! The crackheads know me and we joke around but they might jump you!
Most of my nights out are with my social circle, but i wouldn't be adverse to meeting some of you guys.
Someone host a party! i'd do it but i'm still with my parents since they are paying for college, Get a party going and i'll get every HB i know there
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Miguel
Don Juan
Why not get everyone together, and prowl the streets for a couple hours PUA style? We can get a feel for people around us, plus get some sarging in.
Miguel
Don Juan
Feel free to post here or PM me...
AaJ321
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I'm aware of all the great clubs and such, every girl on residence could recommend me one. I'm looking for a couple of good pubs/sports bars instead. One where girls don't shy away from but I also would feel comfortable bringing a group of my old farm town guy friends (who would perceive clubs as gay)
AaJ321
Don Juan
?Miguel said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
picard
Master Don Juan
I am in my 40s but I look young. I look in my 30s. where do you go to pick up ladies in Toronto?Freddy1 said:
Where do the ladies hang out?
picard
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.