CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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@Desdinova I'd like your input as well.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sugar Dating on Rise
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
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Are you having one of those days? No worries.. We understand.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Im saying these actions are a part of the problem, YOU are a part of the problem with your responses here, look at this, abysmal, it seems you guys are contributing to things that need to be moderated with these responses and then come back with these canned responses of "Oh, we have lives to live, we can't contribute to So Suave in any positive way, no new conversations no new content, same old posts over and over."
Its sad that this is what So Suave is and you are proud to be a part of it, speaks volumes on your character. It could be great, if not held back by old blood.
RickTheToad
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It's unfortunate you feel this way. I believe everyone is treated the same way. Dudes, dudettes, amphibians, hermaphrodites.. All are treated the same.
Desdinova
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A while ago, I posted this. Women are no longer getting the attention they're used to, so they've started paying for it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.