oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
To be honest who gives a flyin sh*t? Wear what you want...BINGO!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Are you talking to me?? If so why would i be pissed?? Dont be gay...if youre not talking to me...too badOriginally posted by Drowning
What's wrong with tee-shirts that have writing on 'em? They're conversation starters. Even if some girl doesn't just come up to you and tell you how much she loves your shirt, you can catch her reading it and say something C+F about the way she's staring at you.
Maybe you're just pissed because you can't understand the tee-shirt.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why would I be talking to you?Are you talking to me?? If so why would i be pissed?? Dont be gay...if youre not talking to me...too bad