oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
To be honest who gives a flyin sh*t? Wear what you want...BINGO!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Stupid T-shirts at school
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Drowning
Don Juan
What's wrong with tee-shirts that have writing on 'em? They're conversation starters. Even if some girl doesn't just come up to you and tell you how much she loves your shirt, you can catch her reading it and say something C+F about the way she's staring at you.
Maybe you're just pissed because you can't understand the tee-shirt.
Maybe you're just pissed because you can't understand the tee-shirt.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Are you talking to me?? If so why would i be pissed?? Dont be gay...if youre not talking to me...too badOriginally posted by Drowning
What's wrong with tee-shirts that have writing on 'em? They're conversation starters. Even if some girl doesn't just come up to you and tell you how much she loves your shirt, you can catch her reading it and say something C+F about the way she's staring at you.
Maybe you're just pissed because you can't understand the tee-shirt.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I just have normal shirts, but my friend's friend like ONLY WEARS those shirts lmao. I was like, damn that's funny, cuz the shirts say ffunny things.
but yeah...don't depend on shirts.
but yeah...don't depend on shirts.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Those shirts=retarded and not cool.
People who wear them=people who don't care abotu my opinion.
leave it at that.
People who wear them=people who don't care abotu my opinion.
leave it at that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
99% of the time it's not the shirts themselves, it's who's wearing em. It's usually the ones who don't wear them because they don't give an F, it's the ones who wear them for attention. I've got a couple shirts like that, and I've gotten a lot of laughs and compliments on them. Not the anti-social ones (the voices in my head don't like you), but like "Danger, extremely hot"
What i'm getting at is it's probably the people wearing them who are the dumbasses, not the shirts themselves.
What i'm getting at is it's probably the people wearing them who are the dumbasses, not the shirts themselves.
Drowning
Don Juan
Why would I be talking to you?
Anyway, I must be biased for those kinds of tee-shirts since I go to an art school and it's cool t be all, "My art is my pain."