Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I barely made it to 20. It wasn't because of the weight, it was cause I did so much before that and it just killed me. Next time i was planning on doing 3x6 at 185 if i could, then 145x20 for the widowmaker. or should i do less weight in the main sets and increase the widowmaker? Increasing both isnot an option right now.mrRuckus said:I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Come on man that's the same work out as the other day! You've got to make some sort of progression (couple more reps at same weight or a tiny bit more weight at same or couple less reps) every work out to grow.Stud said:DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
oh yes. Biohazard, Pantera, Drowning Pool, etc. Good stuff.PeterNorthisawesome said:Listening to heavy metal helps too.
PeterNorthisawesome said:So Stud is your chest and bicep actually getting bigger by doing DB Presses and Incline DB Presses? because I don't wanna kill myself doing BB Presses without a spotter. Nice progress btw when you feel like slacking off think of the times when you were made fun of by girls, jocks and bullies! Listening to heavy metal helps too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.