Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I barely made it to 20. It wasn't because of the weight, it was cause I did so much before that and it just killed me. Next time i was planning on doing 3x6 at 185 if i could, then 145x20 for the widowmaker. or should i do less weight in the main sets and increase the widowmaker? Increasing both isnot an option right now.mrRuckus said:I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Come on man that's the same work out as the other day! You've got to make some sort of progression (couple more reps at same weight or a tiny bit more weight at same or couple less reps) every work out to grow.Stud said:DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oh yes. Biohazard, Pantera, Drowning Pool, etc. Good stuff.PeterNorthisawesome said:Listening to heavy metal helps too.
PeterNorthisawesome said:So Stud is your chest and bicep actually getting bigger by doing DB Presses and Incline DB Presses? because I don't wanna kill myself doing BB Presses without a spotter. Nice progress btw when you feel like slacking off think of the times when you were made fun of by girls, jocks and bullies! Listening to heavy metal helps too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.