Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Stud said:Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I barely made it to 20. It wasn't because of the weight, it was cause I did so much before that and it just killed me. Next time i was planning on doing 3x6 at 185 if i could, then 145x20 for the widowmaker. or should i do less weight in the main sets and increase the widowmaker? Increasing both isnot an option right now.mrRuckus said:I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Come on man that's the same work out as the other day! You've got to make some sort of progression (couple more reps at same weight or a tiny bit more weight at same or couple less reps) every work out to grow.Stud said:DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oh yes. Biohazard, Pantera, Drowning Pool, etc. Good stuff.PeterNorthisawesome said:Listening to heavy metal helps too.
PeterNorthisawesome said:So Stud is your chest and bicep actually getting bigger by doing DB Presses and Incline DB Presses? because I don't wanna kill myself doing BB Presses without a spotter. Nice progress btw when you feel like slacking off think of the times when you were made fun of by girls, jocks and bullies! Listening to heavy metal helps too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.