"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrRuckus

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Squat- 155x6, 175x6, 185x7, 145x20 (+30lbs)

I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus said:
I think if you can do more than 20 on the widowmaker at a particular weight that day you should be.
I barely made it to 20. It wasn't because of the weight, it was cause I did so much before that and it just killed me. Next time i was planning on doing 3x6 at 185 if i could, then 145x20 for the widowmaker. or should i do less weight in the main sets and increase the widowmaker? Increasing both isnot an option right now.
 

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DB Bench - 45x6, 45x6, 45x6
DB incline bench 40x6, 40x6, 40x6
Dips - 1x2, 3xsupporting weight
Smyth Machine Military Press - 115x6, 115x6, 115x6
 

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Squat-185x6,185x6 135x20
Leg curl- 40x6, 40x6, 40x6
calf raises- 2x30
Weighted decline Abs 3x10 @25lba
 

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DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deadlift- 115x6, 115x6
DB Row - 50x6, 50x6, 50x6(+5lbs)
Preacher curl- 50x6, 50x6, 50x6 (+5lbs)
Cable Crossover- 60x6, 60x6 (+10lbs)
 

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DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
 

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DB bench - 45x6 - 3 sets
DB incline bench - 40x6 - 3 sets
Dips - 1x2, 4xsupporting weight
Smyth machine shoulder press - 3x115 - 3 sets
Come on man that's the same work out as the other day! You've got to make some sort of progression (couple more reps at same weight or a tiny bit more weight at same or couple less reps) every work out to grow.
 

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yeah dude, i know. I've been slacking hardcore, my intial enthusiam dropped off the map. I've buckled down and renewed my commitment. I dropped off a little of the weight on the original sets to up the weight on my widowmaker today.

Squat-170x6,170x6 155x20
Leg curl- 40x6, 40x6, 40x6
calf raises- 2x30
Weighted decline Abs 3x10 @35lbs
 
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So Stud is your chest and bicep actually getting bigger by doing DB Presses and Incline DB Presses? because I don't wanna kill myself doing BB Presses without a spotter. Nice progress btw when you feel like slacking off think of the times when you were made fun of by girls, jocks and bullies! Listening to heavy metal helps too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Listening to heavy metal helps too.
oh yes. Biohazard, Pantera, Drowning Pool, etc. Good stuff. :)
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
So Stud is your chest and bicep actually getting bigger by doing DB Presses and Incline DB Presses? because I don't wanna kill myself doing BB Presses without a spotter. Nice progress btw when you feel like slacking off think of the times when you were made fun of by girls, jocks and bullies! Listening to heavy metal helps too.

Yeah, using dumbbells I think is better because it uses all the stabilizer muscles that using a machine or BB misses. A-Unit had a great post about it a while ago. I wouldn't do BB presses without a spotter because you gotta do near your max to keep growin. It could get real dangerous real fast. Thanks for noticing my progress, I gotta keep consistent with my workouts to keep em comin.

Thanks for the music tips reyalp, I'm just now trying to broaden my music tastes to heavy metal and I'll look into those bands.
 

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Yeah Stud I actually hate heavy metal, but that's all that I have on my MP3 player. It's the best at the gym, that's for sure! :)
 

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DB Bench - 45x6, 50x5, 50x4
DB incline bench 40x6, 45x4, 45x3
Dips - 1x3, 1x2, 3xsupporting weight
Smyth Machine Military Press - 120x6, 120x6, 120x6
 

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Deadlift- 115x6, 120x4
DB Row - 50x6, 50x6, 50x6
Preacher curl- 50x6, 50x6, 50x6
Cable Crossover- 60x6, 60x6
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bad news. Today, while doing my smyth machine press, I was going to hook the bar back on the machine and I kind of used my right arm more than my left, and I heard a kind of ripping/tearing noise in my right neck muscle. I couldnt continue on with my workout and had a tough time turning tot he right on the drive home. I came home, took a muscle relaxer and some advil then went to sleep. I'm still in a lot of pain. This is especially bad for me because I broke my neck about 4 years ago. I am going to go to the ER tom morn if it is not feelin any better. Hopefully I won't be sidelined for too long.
 

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Ended up not goin to the ER. Toughed it out. Went back to the gym tonight and let er rip. Feelin pretty good now.

Squats - 185x6, 185x6, 155x20
Hamstring curl - 40x6, 40x6, 40x8
Calf raises - 2x30, 2x30
weighted decline ab's - 25 @ 3 x10
 

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Leg day - where it's at! Ever try stiff-leg deadlifts for hamstrings? In my experience that movement blows away the curl.
 

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yeah i've thought about givin it a shot, but after seein the video's of how its done, I'm worried about the extra pressure it puts on your neck. It looks almost painful and like I said i broke my neck and i gotta be careful.

DB bench press - 50x6, 50x4, 50x3, 50x3
DB Incline - 40x6, 40x6, 45x2, 40x6
Machine shoulder press - 90x6, 90x6, 80x8
Dips, 1x2, 3xbodyweight
 

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You should be able to do more on dead lift than squatsI can only auat about 225 but I can deadlift 315. Just throw more and more weight on untill you cant do it. And use all the strength you have. I had no idea I could do that much on deads but I tried and was able to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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