"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Strong mutual attraction with a coworker who's engaged

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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greatsnake

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I'd say she's looking for attention/validation, but won't give you the light of day outside of the workplace. Ignore her and engage with others at work and check out her reaction, if you really want to pursue her. Otherwise look for someone else that doesn't want only attention.
 

Black Magic

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You can remind yourself that she is low quality, because she is willing to cheat on her fiance'. And you can put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes.
Well, as others have pointed out she may not be willing to do anything except flirt. But yeah, the fact that I have to ask so many questions about it is an immediate sign there’s trouble behind that door.

I learned recently about incongruity, and I’m definitely incongruent about this.
 

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The question is do you have your OWN eco-system? Not having one will lead to desperation and delusions.
This is the problem with many men here and in real life.

They don't have inner orbiters and outer orbiters.

The preoccupation with OLD and Club/Night scene to get laid can only mean a severe lack of social networking skills or laziness.

A good social networking is like being a sun, a cycle of feeding itself energy to burn bright.

Women will introduce you to other women and they in turn introduces you to yet another group of women, its a cycle that never truly ends.

But 1st, you must be a mother fvcking great man.

Work on being great guys.

Don't keep on asking for steps or manuals of getting women, it's all useless, short term game play.
 
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