"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Strong mutual attraction with a coworker who's engaged
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Well, as others have pointed out she may not be willing to do anything except flirt. But yeah, the fact that I have to ask so many questions about it is an immediate sign there’s trouble behind that door.
I learned recently about incongruity, and I’m definitely incongruent about this.
This is the problem with many men here and in real life.
They don't have inner orbiters and outer orbiters.
The preoccupation with OLD and Club/Night scene to get laid can only mean a severe lack of social networking skills or laziness.
A good social networking is like being a sun, a cycle of feeding itself energy to burn bright.
Women will introduce you to other women and they in turn introduces you to yet another group of women, its a cycle that never truly ends.
But 1st, you must be a mother fvcking great man.
Work on being great guys.
Don't keep on asking for steps or manuals of getting women, it's all useless, short term game play.