Strong mutual attraction with a coworker who's engaged

[MT93]

Abort mission

 

[greatsnake]

I'd say she's looking for attention/validation, but won't give you the light of day outside of the workplace. Ignore her and engage with others at work and check out her reaction, if you really want to pursue her. Otherwise look for someone else that doesn't want only attention.

 

[Black Magic]

You can remind yourself that she is low quality, because she is willing to cheat on her fiance'. And you can put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes.

Well, as others have pointed out she may not be willing to do anything except flirt. But yeah, the fact that I have to ask so many questions about it is an immediate sign there’s trouble behind that door.

I learned recently about incongruity, and I’m definitely incongruent about this.

 

[Spaz]

The question is do you have your OWN eco-system? Not having one will lead to desperation and delusions.

This is the problem with many men here and in real life.

They don't have inner orbiters and outer orbiters.

The preoccupation with OLD and Club/Night scene to get laid can only mean a severe lack of social networking skills or laziness.

A good social networking is like being a sun, a cycle of feeding itself energy to burn bright.

Women will introduce you to other women and they in turn introduces you to yet another group of women, its a cycle that never truly ends.

But 1st, you must be a mother fvcking great man.

Work on being great guys.

Don't keep on asking for steps or manuals of getting women, it's all useless, short term game play.