"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Strong mutual attraction with a coworker who's engaged
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Well, as others have pointed out she may not be willing to do anything except flirt. But yeah, the fact that I have to ask so many questions about it is an immediate sign there’s trouble behind that door.
I learned recently about incongruity, and I’m definitely incongruent about this.
This is the problem with many men here and in real life.
They don't have inner orbiters and outer orbiters.
The preoccupation with OLD and Club/Night scene to get laid can only mean a severe lack of social networking skills or laziness.
A good social networking is like being a sun, a cycle of feeding itself energy to burn bright.
Women will introduce you to other women and they in turn introduces you to yet another group of women, its a cycle that never truly ends.
But 1st, you must be a mother fvcking great man.
Work on being great guys.
Don't keep on asking for steps or manuals of getting women, it's all useless, short term game play.