“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Strong mutual attraction with a coworker who's engaged

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

greatsnake

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I'd say she's looking for attention/validation, but won't give you the light of day outside of the workplace. Ignore her and engage with others at work and check out her reaction, if you really want to pursue her. Otherwise look for someone else that doesn't want only attention.
 

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You can remind yourself that she is low quality, because she is willing to cheat on her fiance'. And you can put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes.
Well, as others have pointed out she may not be willing to do anything except flirt. But yeah, the fact that I have to ask so many questions about it is an immediate sign there’s trouble behind that door.

I learned recently about incongruity, and I’m definitely incongruent about this.
 

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The question is do you have your OWN eco-system? Not having one will lead to desperation and delusions.
This is the problem with many men here and in real life.

They don't have inner orbiters and outer orbiters.

The preoccupation with OLD and Club/Night scene to get laid can only mean a severe lack of social networking skills or laziness.

A good social networking is like being a sun, a cycle of feeding itself energy to burn bright.

Women will introduce you to other women and they in turn introduces you to yet another group of women, its a cycle that never truly ends.

But 1st, you must be a mother fvcking great man.

Work on being great guys.

Don't keep on asking for steps or manuals of getting women, it's all useless, short term game play.
 
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