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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stretching

CGE333

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How many of you guys stretch before you work out and if so what are some good stretches to do?

The reason I ask is I normally ride my mtn. bike for cardio and never stretch but the other day I did 30 minutes on an elliptical machine and I swear the last 2 days my calfs are so sore it hurts to walk. Someone told me to stretch in advance.

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz

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Stretching is supposedly a huge plus. I know I have a little more ROM after I stretch, for obvious reasons. I also feel "fresher".

lmao

www.refityourself.com/refit/staticstretches.html

also, go to google and research "dynamic stretching" I'm a fan of those as well.
 

simon

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Save static stretching for post-workout. Do dynamic stretching pre-workout.
 

Throttle

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it probably had zero to do with the stretching. this should be obvious, but elliptical machines work your legs differently than a mountain bike, especially if you've never used one before.
 

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I have never stretched before/after a workout,I just stretch whenever I have a chance.
 

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cancerian

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I have read that stretching prior to a workout can help to avoid certain injuries. It is also healthy to always stretch when you get up in the morning. In this day and age, sometimes we get up and just get going, but we should always remember to stretch our back and limbs.
 
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