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When I was young, and older guy at work said “no matter how good looking she is, there is a man somewhere who is tired of her sh1t”
That quote has stuck with me a long time.
He didn't mention how many men couldn't wait to be introduced to her sh*t did he? 1 man's tired, 10 men can't wait to get her sh*t.

He didn't mention that part. No man parroting that quote does.
 

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He didn't mention how many men couldn't wait to be introduced to her sh*t did he? 1 man's tired, 10 men can't wait to get her sh*t.

He didn't mention that part. No man parroting that quote does.
Those 10 men didn't know what her sh*t was... Their stupid if they think it means she will be pleasing them, because if that's what she wanted to do, she would be doing it.
 

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I cringed at the use of "make love." Nobody says that lol.

Of course they don't.

But in all seriousness, the point he is trying to make is at least arguable. He's essentially preaching an extreme form of "nofap" for your eyes. If you aren't getting any, don't use her as free porn.

And what's the likelihood you will get some? She'd have to be interested, not be an AW to you, be available, etc.

Realistically, if there are attractive women around, you will always notice, even if it just via your peripheral vision. But not gawking at them (or even attempting to check them out) unless you plan to approach doesn't sound like a bad idea. Even the PUAs warned about looking at a chick too many times (or too long) before approaching because it can creep her out.

Sometimes being in a girl's vicinity can creep her out. Not every guy is Chad or Tyrone or Enrique or Hiroshi etc. But how often do women approach you for alpha purposes? Not beta purposes i.e. taking their pic, liking their pics, complimenting, BF issues, etc.?

Maybe this could turn into some hardcore "ignoring-whoring" or "ignore game" if done before you approach.

What good does it do if she's not checking you out, and you aren't either? Sure you're not a weak pushover giving out free attention, but you're not advancing anywhere with the girl either. Have fun with your right hand and that baby lotion, you'll need it!

I think there may be some potential here.
Read betwe-Ah something from a favorite poster here!

We can't all just ignore all women while we're out and then have the NE Patriots cheerleaders bringing stuffed crust pizza over and sucking our dix during a Madden tournament a month later.

Women get attention when they're out all the time. Hell they get it while they're in! The whole thing is if you're not a Chad or Tyrone, ignoring has little to no effect. You're invisible anyway.

A lot of guys go for this "ignore to score" trend. Most aren't attractive or rich enough to pull it off. How many women call you back if you call them? Not too many, and most women don't make the first move because they lose power doing so, and they want the right to first refusal.

Gawking makes you a beta. Not paying attention makes you useless. Which one's better is anyone's guess cuz you're not getting laid or sh*t from her. What if all she wants from you is beta stuff or connections to raise her status? What if you're not first place in her eyes?

We are competing with a boatload of guys for any given girl. Guys in her past, her inbox, her vicinity, her workplace, and everything in between.

Read Desdinova's high score theory.
 

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No fap theory gains a bit more
Wow, he nails it, and why men need to be a lot more disciplined. I did understand that fapping while your sex life or dating life is not going well is about the stupidest thing you can do. This guy drives the point home. Instead of fantasizing about whatever it is, put in the work to make it a reality.
 
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