"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Also, why get a younger one when she’ll just hit her epiphany phase again? I don’t wanna go from pusssy to pusssy until I’m old. I enjoyed monogamy when I had it. It’s easier, more stable, no condoms, allows me to focus on my missions instead of dating, etc.
And how's that working out for you?

Monogamy is a illusion. Women seek it conveniently post wall or nearly.

Placing your purpose over women is the gold standard.

When you stand, don't wobble. She left. Good riddance. Hotter and younger await assuming you man up, grow a pair, and ho get girls.

Your biology was complacent. If anything, you being committed is what dried up her vag. Women leave to date up or slut out. No exception.

You hot r9ck bottom baeeeees back on the D. Women are savage in the market place.

Pick monogamy after a train of women top form SMV 18-23. Not post wall.



Why?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well what else am I supposed to do? U know what I’ve been up to, so I wonder why you say I’m doing nothing.

You say you took action, but yet the way you think remains the same.

As such, nothing has changed.

When something changes, come back here, ask for further guidance on that path, I have little to no patience with you now.

Another 1 more loser post about ur ex and moaning about pain, I will henceforth totally dismiss you as a lost case.

Now I'm thinking that ur ex was totally right to be dismissive of such a loser, yes you, good for her, good for her future children, good for all those that truly cares and love her.

She should have dumped you a long time ago, she was stupid to think that she could train a boy into a man.
 

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Advice from the old lady:

Sometimes loss is the only teacher we heed. The cruelty of loss as a teacher is that loss exacts a price paid in what we truly desire, for loss clears the fog and brings our perspective into sharp focus and allows us to see and value what we had...but alas it is gone.

Furthermore you must understand you cannot go back. Not now, not ever. You and she are no longer the two people who were in that failed relationship. You were instars of a previous makeup and maturity and you have progressed to another place.

Perhaps life will bring you round for another interaction. If so it is something different and new. If not (which is the case in all likelihood) then you must digest the lesson taught by loss and apply your new knowledge to your life moving forward. That’s all you can do.

There is someone else out there for you who will be a suitable partner. Don’t allow unsatisfying options to take up your bandwidth. Leave enough space in your life to allow something good a foothold.

And pay attention because opportunities can be anywhere.
 

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Beware too and do not allow loss to plant the seeds of bitterness and resentment. From there grows baggage that you’ll lug around to haunt and terrorize new relationships.

Take the lesson loss teaches and keep your faith in yourself and people. This isn’t easy. But it is the only way to mature & move forward with a clean slate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And how's that working out for you?

Monogamy is a illusion. Women seek it conveniently post wall or nearly.

Placing your purpose over women is the gold standard.

When you stand, don't wobble. She left. Good riddance. Hotter and younger await assuming you man up, grow a pair, and ho get girls.

Your biology was complacent. If anything, you being committed is what dried up her vag. Women leave to date up or slut out. No exception.

You hot r9ck bottom baeeeees back on the D. Women are savage in the market place.

Pick monogamy after a train of women top form SMV 18-23. Not post wall.



Why?
I was TOO much on my purpose. She was 21 when we met. Which fits into the 18-23 thing.
 
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