"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Also, why get a younger one when she’ll just hit her epiphany phase again? I don’t wanna go from pusssy to pusssy until I’m old. I enjoyed monogamy when I had it. It’s easier, more stable, no condoms, allows me to focus on my missions instead of dating, etc.
And how's that working out for you?

Monogamy is a illusion. Women seek it conveniently post wall or nearly.

Placing your purpose over women is the gold standard.

When you stand, don't wobble. She left. Good riddance. Hotter and younger await assuming you man up, grow a pair, and ho get girls.

Your biology was complacent. If anything, you being committed is what dried up her vag. Women leave to date up or slut out. No exception.

You hot r9ck bottom baeeeees back on the D. Women are savage in the market place.

Pick monogamy after a train of women top form SMV 18-23. Not post wall.



Why?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well what else am I supposed to do? U know what I’ve been up to, so I wonder why you say I’m doing nothing.

You say you took action, but yet the way you think remains the same.

As such, nothing has changed.

When something changes, come back here, ask for further guidance on that path, I have little to no patience with you now.

Another 1 more loser post about ur ex and moaning about pain, I will henceforth totally dismiss you as a lost case.

Now I'm thinking that ur ex was totally right to be dismissive of such a loser, yes you, good for her, good for her future children, good for all those that truly cares and love her.

She should have dumped you a long time ago, she was stupid to think that she could train a boy into a man.
 

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Advice from the old lady:

Sometimes loss is the only teacher we heed. The cruelty of loss as a teacher is that loss exacts a price paid in what we truly desire, for loss clears the fog and brings our perspective into sharp focus and allows us to see and value what we had...but alas it is gone.

Furthermore you must understand you cannot go back. Not now, not ever. You and she are no longer the two people who were in that failed relationship. You were instars of a previous makeup and maturity and you have progressed to another place.

Perhaps life will bring you round for another interaction. If so it is something different and new. If not (which is the case in all likelihood) then you must digest the lesson taught by loss and apply your new knowledge to your life moving forward. That’s all you can do.

There is someone else out there for you who will be a suitable partner. Don’t allow unsatisfying options to take up your bandwidth. Leave enough space in your life to allow something good a foothold.

And pay attention because opportunities can be anywhere.
 

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Beware too and do not allow loss to plant the seeds of bitterness and resentment. From there grows baggage that you’ll lug around to haunt and terrorize new relationships.

Take the lesson loss teaches and keep your faith in yourself and people. This isn’t easy. But it is the only way to mature & move forward with a clean slate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And how's that working out for you?

Monogamy is a illusion. Women seek it conveniently post wall or nearly.

Placing your purpose over women is the gold standard.

When you stand, don't wobble. She left. Good riddance. Hotter and younger await assuming you man up, grow a pair, and ho get girls.

Your biology was complacent. If anything, you being committed is what dried up her vag. Women leave to date up or slut out. No exception.

You hot r9ck bottom baeeeees back on the D. Women are savage in the market place.

Pick monogamy after a train of women top form SMV 18-23. Not post wall.



Why?
I was TOO much on my purpose. She was 21 when we met. Which fits into the 18-23 thing.
 
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