BackInTheGame78
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I'd say as you get older that really doesn't move the needle too much anymore. It's kinda like whatever by that point, focus is elsewhere.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Still amazes me
- Thread starter Pierce Manhammer
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pierce Manhammer
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Pedrito, a “dig” is good natured teasing. Es una burla pero sin animosidad.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Just means she's emotionally connected to you, at that time.
But yeah it's definitely a nice feeling. It's how a lot of unexperienced guys fall for a woman. Something like that can hit hard like a drug... if you've never experienced it before it could do damage.
Pierce Manhammer
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It certainly can mess with your brain, but I’ve been around the block so many times there’s a grove in the asphalt…
I call it “the creation of worlds” or “the bubble” it’s those perfect hours or days with a woman where you can live in fantasy life - nothing came before and nothing will come after, it’s living in the moment.
I call it “the creation of worlds” or “the bubble” it’s those perfect hours or days with a woman where you can live in fantasy life - nothing came before and nothing will come after, it’s living in the moment.
Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
It's been 5 years since I have had any of that kind of feminine energy caressing me like that.
The last woman my ride or die who I felt the full weight of the laws of attraction with passed away back in 2019 and now times are harder than ever before. Another winter without a good woman by my side. Fvck that Im still going to keep praying and lit up my candles.
I feel at my most peacefulness when a beautiful woman comes to me for pleasure though. There is peace in that. To me that is her giving you her truly best and no other thing on earth matters.
The last woman my ride or die who I felt the full weight of the laws of attraction with passed away back in 2019 and now times are harder than ever before. Another winter without a good woman by my side. Fvck that Im still going to keep praying and lit up my candles.
I feel at my most peacefulness when a beautiful woman comes to me for pleasure though. There is peace in that. To me that is her giving you her truly best and no other thing on earth matters.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pierce Manhammer
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Hey guys my post was made in post-coital bliss with an amazing piece of trim.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Duke
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Your post reminded me of a very beautiful blonde I dated. All natural. 5'9", gorgeous long legs, great body, pretty face. She was Very difficult to get off.....But one cold and rainy Saturday afternoon while listening to the rain drops on the roof above her bed, it finally happened. I didn't know it then, but that was the peak of that relationship. One of the best times I ever had in bed with a woman. Total nirvana that day. And a woman with nice skin makes it even better.
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