BackInTheGame78
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I'd say as you get older that really doesn't move the needle too much anymore. It's kinda like whatever by that point, focus is elsewhere.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Still amazes me
- Thread starter Pierce Manhammer
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pierce Manhammer
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Pedrito, a “dig” is good natured teasing. Es una burla pero sin animosidad.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Just means she's emotionally connected to you, at that time.
But yeah it's definitely a nice feeling. It's how a lot of unexperienced guys fall for a woman. Something like that can hit hard like a drug... if you've never experienced it before it could do damage.
Pierce Manhammer
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It certainly can mess with your brain, but I’ve been around the block so many times there’s a grove in the asphalt…
I call it “the creation of worlds” or “the bubble” it’s those perfect hours or days with a woman where you can live in fantasy life - nothing came before and nothing will come after, it’s living in the moment.
I call it “the creation of worlds” or “the bubble” it’s those perfect hours or days with a woman where you can live in fantasy life - nothing came before and nothing will come after, it’s living in the moment.
Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
It's been 5 years since I have had any of that kind of feminine energy caressing me like that.
The last woman my ride or die who I felt the full weight of the laws of attraction with passed away back in 2019 and now times are harder than ever before. Another winter without a good woman by my side. Fvck that Im still going to keep praying and lit up my candles.
I feel at my most peacefulness when a beautiful woman comes to me for pleasure though. There is peace in that. To me that is her giving you her truly best and no other thing on earth matters.
The last woman my ride or die who I felt the full weight of the laws of attraction with passed away back in 2019 and now times are harder than ever before. Another winter without a good woman by my side. Fvck that Im still going to keep praying and lit up my candles.
I feel at my most peacefulness when a beautiful woman comes to me for pleasure though. There is peace in that. To me that is her giving you her truly best and no other thing on earth matters.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Pierce Manhammer
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Hey guys my post was made in post-coital bliss with an amazing piece of trim.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Duke
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Your post reminded me of a very beautiful blonde I dated. All natural. 5'9", gorgeous long legs, great body, pretty face. She was Very difficult to get off.....But one cold and rainy Saturday afternoon while listening to the rain drops on the roof above her bed, it finally happened. I didn't know it then, but that was the peak of that relationship. One of the best times I ever had in bed with a woman. Total nirvana that day. And a woman with nice skin makes it even better.
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