"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SS 1st annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

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Calling all incels, creepers, BPD daters, virgins, looks and race theory followers, basement dwellers, rapists, betas,keyboard Jockeys, manosphere shamers and assorted gimps!

Who's up for So Suave's first annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

A full blown SS online sarge! (Forget the real life nonsense for now.)

We'll need teams with Master DJ leaders, online wingmen, and a few to play the online orbiter role.

Let's see who the REAL "DJs" are on SS.

Details on the competition and prizes to follow! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YES!! My online approach anxiety has gotten so bad I'm too scared to even turn on my computer sometimes.

Can we plz do baby steps though first? Like first week, turn on my computer, second week, "check out" 5 HB profiles, third week, write a rough draft of an opening message??
 
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Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Packers2010 said:
can't tell if this s troll
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And That's why trolls eat more than their fill here on SS.
 
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