"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SS 1st annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

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Calling all incels, creepers, BPD daters, virgins, looks and race theory followers, basement dwellers, rapists, betas,keyboard Jockeys, manosphere shamers and assorted gimps!

Who's up for So Suave's first annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

A full blown SS online sarge! (Forget the real life nonsense for now.)

We'll need teams with Master DJ leaders, online wingmen, and a few to play the online orbiter role.

Let's see who the REAL "DJs" are on SS.

Details on the competition and prizes to follow! :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YES!! My online approach anxiety has gotten so bad I'm too scared to even turn on my computer sometimes.

Can we plz do baby steps though first? Like first week, turn on my computer, second week, "check out" 5 HB profiles, third week, write a rough draft of an opening message??
 
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Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Packers2010 said:
can't tell if this s troll
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And That's why trolls eat more than their fill here on SS.
 
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