"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SS 1st annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

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Calling all incels, creepers, BPD daters, virgins, looks and race theory followers, basement dwellers, rapists, betas,keyboard Jockeys, manosphere shamers and assorted gimps!

Who's up for So Suave's first annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

A full blown SS online sarge! (Forget the real life nonsense for now.)

We'll need teams with Master DJ leaders, online wingmen, and a few to play the online orbiter role.

Let's see who the REAL "DJs" are on SS.

Details on the competition and prizes to follow! :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YES!! My online approach anxiety has gotten so bad I'm too scared to even turn on my computer sometimes.

Can we plz do baby steps though first? Like first week, turn on my computer, second week, "check out" 5 HB profiles, third week, write a rough draft of an opening message??
 
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Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Packers2010 said:
can't tell if this s troll
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And That's why trolls eat more than their fill here on SS.
 
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