"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SS 1st annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

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Calling all incels, creepers, BPD daters, virgins, looks and race theory followers, basement dwellers, rapists, betas,keyboard Jockeys, manosphere shamers and assorted gimps!

Who's up for So Suave's first annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

A full blown SS online sarge! (Forget the real life nonsense for now.)

We'll need teams with Master DJ leaders, online wingmen, and a few to play the online orbiter role.

Let's see who the REAL "DJs" are on SS.

Details on the competition and prizes to follow! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YES!! My online approach anxiety has gotten so bad I'm too scared to even turn on my computer sometimes.

Can we plz do baby steps though first? Like first week, turn on my computer, second week, "check out" 5 HB profiles, third week, write a rough draft of an opening message??
 
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Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Packers2010 said:
can't tell if this s troll
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And That's why trolls eat more than their fill here on SS.
 
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