"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SS 1st annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

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Calling all incels, creepers, BPD daters, virgins, looks and race theory followers, basement dwellers, rapists, betas,keyboard Jockeys, manosphere shamers and assorted gimps!

Who's up for So Suave's first annual POF/OkCupid/Facebook approach anxiety competition!

A full blown SS online sarge! (Forget the real life nonsense for now.)

We'll need teams with Master DJ leaders, online wingmen, and a few to play the online orbiter role.

Let's see who the REAL "DJs" are on SS.

Details on the competition and prizes to follow! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YES!! My online approach anxiety has gotten so bad I'm too scared to even turn on my computer sometimes.

Can we plz do baby steps though first? Like first week, turn on my computer, second week, "check out" 5 HB profiles, third week, write a rough draft of an opening message??
 
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Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Packers2010 said:
can't tell if this s troll
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And That's why trolls eat more than their fill here on SS.
 
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