“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I couldn't find a better example. But this is kinda how I have to carry ladders. Im dealing with a huge one kow thus I feel like I need more power to carry it.

Again that picture isn't the perfect example as he stands still ,but imagine holding the ladder with two arms while moving.

BITG, what would be the best exercise to carry this easier?
 
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Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I couldn't find a better example. But this is kinda how I have to carry ladders. Im dealing with a huge one kow thus I feel like I need more power to carry it.

Again ta picture isn't the perfect example as e stands still , it imagine holding the ladder with two arms while moving.

BITG, what would be the best exercise to carry this easier?
Hmm...you mean kind of straight out in front of you with your arms extended?

The natural one that is almost the exact same movement pattern would be anterior raises where you either take a DB or cable and pull it straight out in front of you to shoulder height and then back down.

I also like woodchops and reverse woodchops for that, as it targets the front delts and core which would be heavily involved as well. Basically take a DB or cable and go across your body either starting at your waist and ending above the opposite shoulder or starting above your shoulder and ending at the opposite side by your waist. Brace your core while you are doing it as well.

Also other relative general strength movements like deadlifts would probably be helpful as well.
 

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Is the ladder fiberglass? Could it be replaced with an aluminum one?

Trying to muscle something awkward like that is just asking to hurt your back. When I was younger I tried to wrestle everything. Now it's more like jiu jitsu. Use leverage to minimize force.
 

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Is it just a few metres around a site? Just around the corner?
Get a dolly, pick up ladder, sit on dolly and adjust.
Remove dolly before use.
Something that huge could easily overbalance
Do not fk your back up
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is the ladder fiberglass? Could it be replaced with an aluminum one?

Trying to muscle something awkward like that is just asking to hurt your back. When I was younger I tried to wrestle everything. Now it's more like jiu jitsu. Use leverage to minimize force.
Nah my client bought the ladder because the work is up high like 12 meters. Its a nice and sturdy ladder , 3 stores of 14 steps iirc but heavy. Its aluminum.

I've just was taken aback by my lack of strength. This is a position that doesn't occur that often .

Nowadays I train to perform better doing my job. Recently had a job where I had to climb the jetty nonstop, and I was happy I'm in good shape . On my regular day job the old heads ALWAYS call me to help them lift heavy shyte lol.

When the money is right I will ofcourse work smarter...but now I have to use my body to get that bag...
 

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Is it just a few metres around a site? Just around the corner?
Get a dolly, pick up ladder, sit on dolly and adjust.
Remove dolly before use.
Unfortunately a dolly isn't possible. Or I'd say, its financially unattractive for my client as he needs to pay me a significant amount of money already...

Normally I'd go for what you're saying, but in this case I have to think out of the box. A long ladder is the easiest way to go.
 

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Unfortunately a dolly isn't possible. Or I'd say, its financially unattractive for my client as he needs to pay me a significant amount of money already...
I just mean a small ply platform, rubberised top for grip optional, and 4-5 rotational wheels underneath.
They are like $20 each from hardware store / Aldi/ Costco, hold more than 100kg.
You don't need the fancy ones, which take up too much space anyway.
Keep at least one in your truck /pickup bed.

Or use a skateboard, lol, if you have one around
 

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I just mean a small ply platform, rubberised top for grip optional, and 4-5 rotational wheels underneath.
They are like $20 each from hardware store / Aldi/ Costco, hold more than 100kg.
You don't need the fancy ones, which take up too much space anyway.
Keep at least one in your truck /pickup bed.

Or use a skateboard, lol, if you have one around
I will check it out!

Thanks for your advice
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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