“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I couldn't find a better example. But this is kinda how I have to carry ladders. Im dealing with a huge one kow thus I feel like I need more power to carry it.

Again that picture isn't the perfect example as he stands still ,but imagine holding the ladder with two arms while moving.

BITG, what would be the best exercise to carry this easier?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I couldn't find a better example. But this is kinda how I have to carry ladders. Im dealing with a huge one kow thus I feel like I need more power to carry it.

Again ta picture isn't the perfect example as e stands still , it imagine holding the ladder with two arms while moving.

BITG, what would be the best exercise to carry this easier?
Hmm...you mean kind of straight out in front of you with your arms extended?

The natural one that is almost the exact same movement pattern would be anterior raises where you either take a DB or cable and pull it straight out in front of you to shoulder height and then back down.

I also like woodchops and reverse woodchops for that, as it targets the front delts and core which would be heavily involved as well. Basically take a DB or cable and go across your body either starting at your waist and ending above the opposite shoulder or starting above your shoulder and ending at the opposite side by your waist. Brace your core while you are doing it as well.

Also other relative general strength movements like deadlifts would probably be helpful as well.
 

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Is the ladder fiberglass? Could it be replaced with an aluminum one?

Trying to muscle something awkward like that is just asking to hurt your back. When I was younger I tried to wrestle everything. Now it's more like jiu jitsu. Use leverage to minimize force.
 

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Is it just a few metres around a site? Just around the corner?
Get a dolly, pick up ladder, sit on dolly and adjust.
Remove dolly before use.
Something that huge could easily overbalance
Do not fk your back up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is the ladder fiberglass? Could it be replaced with an aluminum one?

Trying to muscle something awkward like that is just asking to hurt your back. When I was younger I tried to wrestle everything. Now it's more like jiu jitsu. Use leverage to minimize force.
Nah my client bought the ladder because the work is up high like 12 meters. Its a nice and sturdy ladder , 3 stores of 14 steps iirc but heavy. Its aluminum.

I've just was taken aback by my lack of strength. This is a position that doesn't occur that often .

Nowadays I train to perform better doing my job. Recently had a job where I had to climb the jetty nonstop, and I was happy I'm in good shape . On my regular day job the old heads ALWAYS call me to help them lift heavy shyte lol.

When the money is right I will ofcourse work smarter...but now I have to use my body to get that bag...
 

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Is it just a few metres around a site? Just around the corner?
Get a dolly, pick up ladder, sit on dolly and adjust.
Remove dolly before use.
Unfortunately a dolly isn't possible. Or I'd say, its financially unattractive for my client as he needs to pay me a significant amount of money already...

Normally I'd go for what you're saying, but in this case I have to think out of the box. A long ladder is the easiest way to go.
 

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Unfortunately a dolly isn't possible. Or I'd say, its financially unattractive for my client as he needs to pay me a significant amount of money already...
I just mean a small ply platform, rubberised top for grip optional, and 4-5 rotational wheels underneath.
They are like $20 each from hardware store / Aldi/ Costco, hold more than 100kg.
You don't need the fancy ones, which take up too much space anyway.
Keep at least one in your truck /pickup bed.

Or use a skateboard, lol, if you have one around
 

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I just mean a small ply platform, rubberised top for grip optional, and 4-5 rotational wheels underneath.
They are like $20 each from hardware store / Aldi/ Costco, hold more than 100kg.
You don't need the fancy ones, which take up too much space anyway.
Keep at least one in your truck /pickup bed.

Or use a skateboard, lol, if you have one around
I will check it out!

Thanks for your advice
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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