Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I would add the only way you're going to get *worthwhile* success is becoming immune to rejection and also getting good at screening. A good immune system will still result in taxed energy and lost productivity, thus efficiency is also key.
And the ability to use rejection as a learning tool to tweak and change parts of what you are doing to become more successful. Otherwise if you just keep doing the same thing without any changes, you'll likely keep getting the same results.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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o be a legit dating coach, two things are required.

1) Successful.
2) Not handsome.
I thought it also included the rule.
3.) Never really getting laid in real life...
Then you´re a real internet coach.

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Nice incentive @BPH!
I'm sure some SS guys here will be happy your offer and gain from it in a positive way,
 
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At the moment, there is still space, yes.

You'd click the link in my signature to schedule a call so I can see you and get a feel for what your goals are and whether I believe them to be realistic for what I can help with.



You've brought this up before, so clearly this isn't for you.

If you saw a Ferrari, you'd just look at it and go "well yeah, obviously it's fast".

You wouldn't think about what it took to create that finished product - in your mind, it just "happened".

That kind of person I cannot help. Because they believe themselves to be at an inescapable disadvantage, rather than being on one of the stepping stones leading to a refined product.
Fair point.
 
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How's your face, hair & height?
I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
 
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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
 

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I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
That's what carb cycling is for. All the benefits of Keto without the flat tires.
 

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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
You're a little on the short side. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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