"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would add the only way you're going to get *worthwhile* success is becoming immune to rejection and also getting good at screening. A good immune system will still result in taxed energy and lost productivity, thus efficiency is also key.
And the ability to use rejection as a learning tool to tweak and change parts of what you are doing to become more successful. Otherwise if you just keep doing the same thing without any changes, you'll likely keep getting the same results.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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o be a legit dating coach, two things are required.

1) Successful.
2) Not handsome.
I thought it also included the rule.
3.) Never really getting laid in real life...
Then you´re a real internet coach.

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Nice incentive @BPH!
I'm sure some SS guys here will be happy your offer and gain from it in a positive way,
 
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At the moment, there is still space, yes.

You'd click the link in my signature to schedule a call so I can see you and get a feel for what your goals are and whether I believe them to be realistic for what I can help with.



You've brought this up before, so clearly this isn't for you.

If you saw a Ferrari, you'd just look at it and go "well yeah, obviously it's fast".

You wouldn't think about what it took to create that finished product - in your mind, it just "happened".

That kind of person I cannot help. Because they believe themselves to be at an inescapable disadvantage, rather than being on one of the stepping stones leading to a refined product.
Fair point.
 
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How's your face, hair & height?
I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
 
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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
 

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I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
That's what carb cycling is for. All the benefits of Keto without the flat tires.
 

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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
You're a little on the short side. :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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