"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would add the only way you're going to get *worthwhile* success is becoming immune to rejection and also getting good at screening. A good immune system will still result in taxed energy and lost productivity, thus efficiency is also key.
And the ability to use rejection as a learning tool to tweak and change parts of what you are doing to become more successful. Otherwise if you just keep doing the same thing without any changes, you'll likely keep getting the same results.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AureliusMaximus

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o be a legit dating coach, two things are required.

1) Successful.
2) Not handsome.
I thought it also included the rule.
3.) Never really getting laid in real life...
Then you´re a real internet coach.

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Nice incentive @BPH!
I'm sure some SS guys here will be happy your offer and gain from it in a positive way,
 
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At the moment, there is still space, yes.

You'd click the link in my signature to schedule a call so I can see you and get a feel for what your goals are and whether I believe them to be realistic for what I can help with.



You've brought this up before, so clearly this isn't for you.

If you saw a Ferrari, you'd just look at it and go "well yeah, obviously it's fast".

You wouldn't think about what it took to create that finished product - in your mind, it just "happened".

That kind of person I cannot help. Because they believe themselves to be at an inescapable disadvantage, rather than being on one of the stepping stones leading to a refined product.
Fair point.
 
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How's your face, hair & height?
I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
 
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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Meh...Keto gonna have your muscles looking like they got a flat tire.
I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
 

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I've considered going back onto a regular CICO diet, but every time I do, I realize that my cooking would suffer. I think about life with no chicken drumsticks or pan sauces with butter & cream, and I'm like "nope! I'm staying keto!" :rofl:

I'd also lose the hunger control benefits.. keto and intermittent fasting pair beautifully together.
That's what carb cycling is for. All the benefits of Keto without the flat tires.
 

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I am 5'10, my hair is good(360 waves) and I'd say I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm continuing to diet down and work on the fitness aspect of things, while concurrently improving my game.

Height is pre-determined but I've had to be very intentional about going out, working out and diet(keto) and maintaining my hair routine.
You're a little on the short side. :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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