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Lets get to the point, i spanked a girl and she got REALLY upset.
What to do?
What to do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spank problem...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
SmokeX
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ummm don't hit her as hard next time? or maybe you didn't hit her hard enough?
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It wasn't hard. She got really upset.
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Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
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agreed shell get over it. if not her lossRock_Solid said:Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I don't want that girl, i can find much better.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
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Well, i wouldn't apologize personally, but if you relaly want to then go ahead, if your not trying to sarge her then there's no difference. I was under the impression you were flirting with a HB you want to get with.
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I acted like nothing happend and she is cool with me now.
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okay... but for next time don't do it when people are around or she'll feel like shes a ho of some sort.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.