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Lets get to the point, i spanked a girl and she got REALLY upset.
What to do?
What to do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Spank problem...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SmokeX
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ummm don't hit her as hard next time? or maybe you didn't hit her hard enough?
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It wasn't hard. She got really upset.
Rock_Solid
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Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
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agreed shell get over it. if not her lossRock_Solid said:Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I don't want that girl, i can find much better.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
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Well, i wouldn't apologize personally, but if you relaly want to then go ahead, if your not trying to sarge her then there's no difference. I was under the impression you were flirting with a HB you want to get with.
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I acted like nothing happend and she is cool with me now.
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okay... but for next time don't do it when people are around or she'll feel like shes a ho of some sort.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.