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Don Juan
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Lets get to the point, i spanked a girl and she got REALLY upset.
What to do?
What to do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Spank problem...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SmokeX
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ummm don't hit her as hard next time? or maybe you didn't hit her hard enough?
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It wasn't hard. She got really upset.
Rock_Solid
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Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
guayaballer
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agreed shell get over it. if not her lossRock_Solid said:Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I don't want that girl, i can find much better.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
Rock_Solid
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Well, i wouldn't apologize personally, but if you relaly want to then go ahead, if your not trying to sarge her then there's no difference. I was under the impression you were flirting with a HB you want to get with.
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I acted like nothing happend and she is cool with me now.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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okay... but for next time don't do it when people are around or she'll feel like shes a ho of some sort.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.