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Don Juan
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Lets get to the point, i spanked a girl and she got REALLY upset.
What to do?
What to do?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Spank problem...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SmokeX
Don Juan
ummm don't hit her as hard next time? or maybe you didn't hit her hard enough?
Infraction
Don Juan
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It wasn't hard. She got really upset.
Rock_Solid
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Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
guayaballer
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agreed shell get over it. if not her lossRock_Solid said:Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I don't want that girl, i can find much better.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
Rock_Solid
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Well, i wouldn't apologize personally, but if you relaly want to then go ahead, if your not trying to sarge her then there's no difference. I was under the impression you were flirting with a HB you want to get with.
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I acted like nothing happend and she is cool with me now.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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okay... but for next time don't do it when people are around or she'll feel like shes a ho of some sort.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.