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Don Juan
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Lets get to the point, i spanked a girl and she got REALLY upset.
What to do?
What to do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Spank problem...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SmokeX
Don Juan
ummm don't hit her as hard next time? or maybe you didn't hit her hard enough?
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Don Juan
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It wasn't hard. She got really upset.
Rock_Solid
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Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
guayaballer
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agreed shell get over it. if not her lossRock_Solid said:Well, if she got REALLY upset about a joke like that then she wasn't that into you in the first place, OR she's doing a **** test. Either way, DON'T apologize, if she wants you she will eventually get over it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I don't want that girl, i can find much better.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
But i guess i should applogize once and said i didn't mean to insult her.
Rock_Solid
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Well, i wouldn't apologize personally, but if you relaly want to then go ahead, if your not trying to sarge her then there's no difference. I was under the impression you were flirting with a HB you want to get with.
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I acted like nothing happend and she is cool with me now.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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okay... but for next time don't do it when people are around or she'll feel like shes a ho of some sort.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.
but if it were in private... i dont know. maybe you came on too much and she doesn't like you.