"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spanish Maria is 3 days late

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So take a letter Maria....(trumpet blasts) address it to my wife...(trumpet) tell her i won't be coming home...gonna start a new life....

 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Was a negative test but she still hasn’t had a period...

I’ve told her to take another one today
 
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Wishing for the best, for all involved!
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Thanks LYD.

Been 10 days late now. However she took the test 3 weeks after we last had sex and I researched and 3 weeks is more than enough to produce a positive test. She was stressed on vacation while visiting family and there’s a lot of girls there so with the flying I’m hoping one of those is the reason.

I don’t even believe in abortion and would rather not have to go through that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Murkserious said:
Thanks LYD.

Been 10 days late now. However she took the test 3 weeks after we last had sex and I researched and 3 weeks is more than enough to produce a positive test. She was stressed on vacation while visiting family and there’s a lot of girls there so with the flying I’m hoping one of those is the reason.

I don’t even believe in abortion and would rather not have to go through that.
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so maria is your new sarah
 
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sosousage said:
so maria is your new sarah
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No Sophie and Maria combined are the new Sara.

No but seriously I have no deep feelings for any of those three women now. I have a date this weekend with a 27 yo hot brunette with freckles. Yum
 
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sosousage said:
you take them from tinder or from where
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The three women above I met: sitting on a bench with her cousin (Sara), in a bar (Sophie), at her work (a pub - Maria).

I find it much easier to approach in real life, tinder/bumble is great for easy bangs with low quality girls. This hot brunette is from bumble - she broke up with her bf of 7 years in December and has been on 3 dates. This is as close to low mileage you’re gonna get on a 27yo as hot as her.

Our date on Friday is basically going to her place for a drink, sex guaranteed, she seems like a nice girl too
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It can be a catch-22. She was stressed so her period is late. Then she's afraid of being pregnant so her stress skyrockets and holds her period back even longer. More fear and stress from that.

It is not uncommon if she were to take another pregnancy test right now, and were to get a clear negative, to then have her period start right away (minutes to hours), just from feeling the relief of knowing she is not truly pregnant right now.

Do you think/feel she is being straight up with you about all of this? Some women fake potential pregnancy scares to get men to think about the woman as maybe carrying their child and a having a life all together. They do it to manipulate you into feeling a deeper bond and closeness with them, and more so than other girls you might otherwise have seen or be seeing. It's twisted. Women still do it.

Again, a late period from stress is SUPER common.
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Speaking from experience? ;'p
 
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It can be a catch-22. She was stressed so her period is late. Then she's afraid of being pregnant so her stress skyrockets and holds her period back even longer. More fear and stress from that.

It is not uncommon if she were to take another pregnancy test right now, and were to get a clear negative, to then have her period start right away (minutes to hours), just from feeling the relief of knowing she is not truly pregnant right now.

Do you think/feel she is being straight up with you about all of this? Some women fake potential pregnancy scares to get men to think about the woman as maybe carrying their child and a having a life all together. They do it to manipulate you into feeling a deeper bond and closeness with them, and more so than other girls you might otherwise have seen or be seeing. It's twisted. Women still do it.

Again, a late period from stress is SUPER common.
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Nah she’s being straight up, just spent the night st hers and on train to work now, she’s gonna do another test today. The sex and chemistry between us is very good.
 
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So youre father now hehe what if its not ur child
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It’s getting aborted regardless she told me last night she’s not having it, at least it takes the choice out of my hands and I won’t feel so guilty
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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