"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spanish Maria is 3 days late

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So take a letter Maria....(trumpet blasts) address it to my wife...(trumpet) tell her i won't be coming home...gonna start a new life....

 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was a negative test but she still hasn’t had a period...

I’ve told her to take another one today
 

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Wishing for the best, for all involved!
Thanks LYD.

Been 10 days late now. However she took the test 3 weeks after we last had sex and I researched and 3 weeks is more than enough to produce a positive test. She was stressed on vacation while visiting family and there’s a lot of girls there so with the flying I’m hoping one of those is the reason.

I don’t even believe in abortion and would rather not have to go through that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks LYD.

Been 10 days late now. However she took the test 3 weeks after we last had sex and I researched and 3 weeks is more than enough to produce a positive test. She was stressed on vacation while visiting family and there’s a lot of girls there so with the flying I’m hoping one of those is the reason.

I don’t even believe in abortion and would rather not have to go through that.

so maria is your new sarah
 

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so maria is your new sarah
No Sophie and Maria combined are the new Sara.

No but seriously I have no deep feelings for any of those three women now. I have a date this weekend with a 27 yo hot brunette with freckles. Yum
 

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you take them from tinder or from where
The three women above I met: sitting on a bench with her cousin (Sara), in a bar (Sophie), at her work (a pub - Maria).

I find it much easier to approach in real life, tinder/bumble is great for easy bangs with low quality girls. This hot brunette is from bumble - she broke up with her bf of 7 years in December and has been on 3 dates. This is as close to low mileage you’re gonna get on a 27yo as hot as her.

Our date on Friday is basically going to her place for a drink, sex guaranteed, she seems like a nice girl too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It can be a catch-22. She was stressed so her period is late. Then she's afraid of being pregnant so her stress skyrockets and holds her period back even longer. More fear and stress from that.

It is not uncommon if she were to take another pregnancy test right now, and were to get a clear negative, to then have her period start right away (minutes to hours), just from feeling the relief of knowing she is not truly pregnant right now.

Do you think/feel she is being straight up with you about all of this? Some women fake potential pregnancy scares to get men to think about the woman as maybe carrying their child and a having a life all together. They do it to manipulate you into feeling a deeper bond and closeness with them, and more so than other girls you might otherwise have seen or be seeing. It's twisted. Women still do it.

Again, a late period from stress is SUPER common.
Speaking from experience? ;'p
 

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It can be a catch-22. She was stressed so her period is late. Then she's afraid of being pregnant so her stress skyrockets and holds her period back even longer. More fear and stress from that.

It is not uncommon if she were to take another pregnancy test right now, and were to get a clear negative, to then have her period start right away (minutes to hours), just from feeling the relief of knowing she is not truly pregnant right now.

Do you think/feel she is being straight up with you about all of this? Some women fake potential pregnancy scares to get men to think about the woman as maybe carrying their child and a having a life all together. They do it to manipulate you into feeling a deeper bond and closeness with them, and more so than other girls you might otherwise have seen or be seeing. It's twisted. Women still do it.

Again, a late period from stress is SUPER common.
Nah she’s being straight up, just spent the night st hers and on train to work now, she’s gonna do another test today. The sex and chemistry between us is very good.
 

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So youre father now hehe what if its not ur child
It’s getting aborted regardless she told me last night she’s not having it, at least it takes the choice out of my hands and I won’t feel so guilty
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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