"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something I noticed in general about college girls...

ElStud

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If she's a sophomore or older, she's probably already got a fiance or she's probably already married. Atleast around here I've found that to be true.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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*smacks forehead*

I give up. You're ignored. Have a pleasant day.
 

mtlwlu

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Wtf, Im in my 3rd year at university, and although some girls are in long term relationships, I have yet to come across anyone thats engaged or married other than TAs Profs and Senior students. Don't be a plug and write about useless S***
 

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lol...absolute nonsense mate. Are you telling me most 19yr old female students at your college are married? Whatever man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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ElStud said:
If she's a sophomore or older, she's probably already got a fiance or she's probably already married. Atleast around here I've found that to be true.

they probably say that to get you to go away. I would love it if you got an audio recorder and started recording your approaches. Then we could see what's going wrong in your game. Go get an audio recorder from radio shack and sort it out. If you want to get better your gonna have to something different than what your doing now.
 

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Warrior74 said:
they probably say that to get you to go away. I would love it if you got an audio recorder and started recording your approaches. Then we could see what's going wrong in your game.
Good idea.
 

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and this is from a sample size of maybe 10 girls you know?

INCONCLUSIVE
 

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Elstud, I don't know where you get some of this stuff. I have an honest question though. Are you autistic or have Asperger's or something because you don't seem to get the hint. I'm not bashing you or anything I'm seriously curious.
 

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Something I noticed in general about ElStud... HE is a complete and utter douchebag who will NEVER listen to what anyone says and he is and always will be a complete failure.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MikeYikes122

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ElStud, I went to college for four years. Never did I come across a girl who was getting married. The only exceptions were the inbred hillbilly girls who had their husbands selected for them by their families when they were 15.

Like everyone else told you, the girls are telling you this because they want you to piss off.

Warrior74 said:
they probably say that to get you to go away. I would love it if you got an audio recorder and started recording your approaches. Then we could see what's going wrong in your game. Go get an audio recorder from radio shack and sort it out. If you want to get better your gonna have to something different than what your doing now.
This is a good idea. Recorders are fairly cheap, and most digital models these days have the ability to pull audio off them in MP3 format.
 

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Elstud you're a nerd and no one cares what you have to say anymore.

My best advice to you would be GET SOME CONFIDENCE, and LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. Act MANLY. You complicate when there is no reason to complicate.

These posts don't help anyone... You got to get there and just do it completley different. Don't hold yourself back, just do it, dont' analyse so much. Analyse only in the end of the dates if you do it. But please man just get out there and do your best, get some motivation, change completley your mindset.

I'd LOVE to see you get to a point where you say: Man, all I wrote was a waste of time and completley usless and boring and I should have gotten in the sets much more bold and aimed at the fun.

Now that would be a change. Post it in the forums after. :D
 

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I'd actually like to point out the fact that in spite of all the bashing Elstud receives, he keeps coming back and he keeps perservering. That is a quality is of a DJ. A very important one. But he's kinda missing a quality that's even more importantl; the ability to actually improve.

So while he's failing in the aspect of actually getting better, he's also not letting us affect him. So I say, props to Elstud for carrying on. But like seriously, take our advice man, our collective experience is a really helpful tool to any up and coming Don Juan. It can really help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think ElStud misworded. If we talk about the 8.5s and higher than yes NOT EVERY but A LOT if not MOST OF THEM probably have a boyfriend already. We are talking about the best of the best here.

To say sophomores and higher are in a relationship or married that is a huge generalization. I would make the case that 8.5s or higher, 3 out of 5 are in a relationship and the remaining 2 since they are hard to get and will lie to keep afcs away will let people think they are in one as well so it will make it seem like most are taken.
 

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Jack Paradox said:
I'd actually like to point out the fact that in spite of all the bashing Elstud receives, he keeps coming back and he keeps perservering. That is a quality is of a DJ. A very important one. But he's kinda missing a quality that's even more importantl; the ability to actually improve.

So while he's failing in the aspect of actually getting better, he's also not letting us affect him. So I say, props to Elstud for carrying on. But like seriously, take our advice man, our collective experience is a really helpful tool to any up and coming Don Juan. It can really help.
He kepts coming back cause he has nothing to do. Nothing acffects him, which can be a problem cause he doesnt learn or change. He knows hes a tool as much as we do.
 

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Troll call.
 

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Wow. He got owned.

Daft bastad was probably sarging in a wedding convention.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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