"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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drmeathead

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i havent looked at all the links but i think that a thread on BPD is warranted. 1 in 20 women have this. it can really **** a guy up if he gets involved with a female with this disorder.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten said:
good deal romangod, tell her its a great site.


Thanks, penkitten. She will be happy to hear that.



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I'm pretty much an expert on Cluster B Personality Disorders drmeathead.

If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.

Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.

Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
 

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KontrollerX said:
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
if you want to write something due to the knowledge you have, that would be wonderful.
when we all get done adding in our ideas and whatnot here, i am hoping that we can take the info out of this thread and write something that can be placed in the bible area by the bootcamp and bible category stuff.
i dont know what this should be called when we are done, but it's for inner growth.
please contribute in any way you can:)
 

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Señor Fingers said:
Word to the Pen!

This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind :)
please do... and add a link to whatever thread you are making when it is done.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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