"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
something different needed
- Thread starter penkitten
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Here is another link to my sister's web site that she's suggested.
http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
nice find bible!!Bible_Belt said:
penkitten
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good deal romangod, tell her its a great site.romangod said:
drmeathead
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i havent looked at all the links but i think that a thread on BPD is warranted. 1 in 20 women have this. it can really **** a guy up if he gets involved with a female with this disorder.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KontrollerX
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I'm pretty much an expert on Cluster B Personality Disorders drmeathead.
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if you want to write something due to the knowledge you have, that would be wonderful.KontrollerX said:
when we all get done adding in our ideas and whatnot here, i am hoping that we can take the info out of this thread and write something that can be placed in the bible area by the bootcamp and bible category stuff.
i dont know what this should be called when we are done, but it's for inner growth.
please contribute in any way you can
Señor Fingers
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Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
penkitten
Master Don Juan
please do... and add a link to whatever thread you are making when it is done.Señor Fingers said:Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten
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Rollo Tomassi
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Señor Fingers
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The Power of Priorities
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!