"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
something different needed
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Here is another link to my sister's web site that she's suggested.
http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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penkitten
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nice find bible!!Bible_Belt said:
penkitten
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good deal romangod, tell her its a great site.romangod said:
drmeathead
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i havent looked at all the links but i think that a thread on BPD is warranted. 1 in 20 women have this. it can really **** a guy up if he gets involved with a female with this disorder.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KontrollerX
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I'm pretty much an expert on Cluster B Personality Disorders drmeathead.
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
penkitten
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if you want to write something due to the knowledge you have, that would be wonderful.KontrollerX said:
when we all get done adding in our ideas and whatnot here, i am hoping that we can take the info out of this thread and write something that can be placed in the bible area by the bootcamp and bible category stuff.
i dont know what this should be called when we are done, but it's for inner growth.
please contribute in any way you can
Señor Fingers
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Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
penkitten
Master Don Juan
please do... and add a link to whatever thread you are making when it is done.Señor Fingers said:Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
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penkitten
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Rollo Tomassi
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Señor Fingers
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The Power of Priorities
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!