"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
something different needed
- Thread starter penkitten
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Here is another link to my sister's web site that she's suggested.
http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/self-concept.html
She's very excited about possibly helping many here develop themselves.
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
nice find bible!!Bible_Belt said:
penkitten
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good deal romangod, tell her its a great site.romangod said:
drmeathead
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i havent looked at all the links but i think that a thread on BPD is warranted. 1 in 20 women have this. it can really **** a guy up if he gets involved with a female with this disorder.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
KontrollerX
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I'm pretty much an expert on Cluster B Personality Disorders drmeathead.
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
If you Penny and others think I should write a giant thread on it I'll be happy to do so and then link it here.
Yes Sosuave has had many such threads on the pathological attention wh0re but never one that fully explains them like I can do.
Anyway for right now I'll contribute with one of joekerr's best threads and my personal favorite of his making the thread on what "breaks" mean in a relationship...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if you want to write something due to the knowledge you have, that would be wonderful.KontrollerX said:
when we all get done adding in our ideas and whatnot here, i am hoping that we can take the info out of this thread and write something that can be placed in the bible area by the bootcamp and bible category stuff.
i dont know what this should be called when we are done, but it's for inner growth.
please contribute in any way you can
Señor Fingers
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Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
penkitten
Master Don Juan
please do... and add a link to whatever thread you are making when it is done.Señor Fingers said:Word to the Pen!
This post actually inspired me. I'm taking your theme and running with it if ya dont mind
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
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penkitten
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Rollo Tomassi
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Señor Fingers
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The Power of Priorities
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!
Just posted this one. It actually sprung from the other post I mentioned previously.. kind of turned into its own beast. Stay tuned for more postage soon!