Some men who seek validation get laid

[jhonny9546]

Have you ever wondered why there are some women who prefer and will stay in LTR or STR with men who are validation seekers and "ask/seek" validation especially from them?

 

[Plinco]

Low self-esteem women.

As for the men who seek validation from sex, Rand said it well:

"The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventures—which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value . . . "

Ayn Rand

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Everybody seeks validation. It's wired into our DNA from evolution.

The question is what kind of validation and from what sources?

Long-term financial success, or short-term conversational success?

Girls who like guys who need constant validation need consistent reminders that they are important to somebody.

 

[jhonny9546]

This topic is getting interesting! We'd love everyone's input!

 

[Manure Spherian]

Have you ever wondered why there are some women who prefer and will stay in LTR or STR with men who are validation seekers and "ask/seek" validation especially from them?

Nearly all men get some validation from women, including myself and all men on SS.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Have you ever wondered why there are some women who prefer and will stay in LTR or STR with men who are validation seekers and "ask/seek" validation especially from them?

No. Questions such as "Why does barely anyone remember Fillmore

?"

Or/And

"Why did Albert Fish fry up Grace Budd's limbs with potatoes and onions, rather than rice and gravy?"

Are, by comparison, far more intriguing