jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Have you ever wondered why there are some women who prefer and will stay in LTR or STR with men who are validation seekers and "ask/seek" validation especially from them?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Some men who seek validation get laid
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Low self-esteem women.
As for the men who seek validation from sex, Rand said it well:
"The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventures—which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value . . . "
Ayn Rand
As for the men who seek validation from sex, Rand said it well:
"The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventures—which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value . . . "
Ayn Rand
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Everybody seeks validation. It's wired into our DNA from evolution.
The question is what kind of validation and from what sources?
Long-term financial success, or short-term conversational success?
Girls who like guys who need constant validation need consistent reminders that they are important to somebody.
The question is what kind of validation and from what sources?
Long-term financial success, or short-term conversational success?
Girls who like guys who need constant validation need consistent reminders that they are important to somebody.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
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Manure Spherian
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Nearly all men get some validation from women, including myself and all men on SS.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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No. Questions such as "Why does barely anyone remember Fillmore
Or/And
"Why did Albert Fish fry up Grace Budd's limbs with potatoes and onions, rather than rice and gravy?"
Are, by comparison, far more intriguing
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