tigre
Don Juan
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Some kid touching my girlfriend..what to do?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tigre
Don Juan
since when is threatening a guy for constantly grabbing your GF's ass being insecure? thats just a straight up disrespect towards your GF and yourself, and has to be dealt accordingly. I can see if the dude was talking to his GF and he went up and treaten him for doing that, that´s being insecure, but there are some things that should not be ignored(like a guy grabbing your GF´s ass whenever he feels like it).
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
List of AFC advice:
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
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Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
MVP°Ë¥°ËJI€GALO
Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
tigre
Don Juan
I dont see how threatening that guy would make you seem like your looking for your GF´s approval, the way I see it is that guy(ass grabber) is disrespecting you(by grabbing your GF´s ass) and you shouldnt take his sh1t regardless of what your girl thinks about it. Obviously youre not goint to threaten him infront of your GF. This is really about that guy disrespecting you, I bet that guy went to all his little friends and started to talk sh1t about how he grabbed your GF´s ass and you didnt do **** about it.next thing you know everyone in school will try to grab your girls ass.haha
Ok so next time you and your GF get on the topic of the ass-grabber, get very forensic about it.
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
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When you're with her, and he comes along, say, so she - and maybe he - hears it, "ah, he's just the cutest thing, isn't he?"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by ASD
I have to say I could not agree more.
What the fvck - desperate guys say such things hoping the girl would say "No-no, I love you and I would never want the other guy" and jump their bones.
Right on dude...
let's stop overthinking this, shall we? Just slap one of them in the face. You might want to make that slap emotional with the gf, but seriously, take some position here and tell both of them to stop being fags
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.